▶📖MishnaWith regard to one who issues a warning to his wife not to seclude herself with a particular man, so that if she does no…
With regard to one who issues a warning to his wife not to seclude herself with a particular man, so that if she does not heed his warning she will assume the status of a woman suspected by her husband of having been unfaithful [sota], Rabbi Eliezer says: He issues a warning to her based on, i.e., in the presence of, two witnesses for the warning to be effective. If two witnesses were not present for the warning, she is not a sota even if two witnesses saw her seclusion with another man. And the husband gives the bitter water to her to drink based on the testimony of one witness who saw the seclusion, or even based on his own testimony that he himself saw them secluded together, as Rabbi Eliezer holds that only the warning requires witnesses, not the seclusion. Rabbi Yehoshua says: He both issues a warning to her based on two witnesses and gives the bitter water to her to drink based on the testimony of two witnesses.
The mishna asks: How does he issue a warning to her in an effective manner? If he says to her in the presence of two witnesses: Do not speak with the man called so-and-so, and she nevertheless spoke with him, she is still permitted to her home, i.e., she is permitted to engage in sexual intercourse with her husband, and if she is the wife of a priest she is still permitted to partake of teruma.
However, if after he told her not to speak with so-and-so, she entered into a secluded place and remained with that man long enough to become defiled, i.e., sufficient time to engage in sexual intercourse, she is forbidden to her home from that moment until she undergoes the sota rite. And likewise, if she was the wife of a priest she is prohibited from partaking of teruma, as she was possibly disqualified by her infidelity, so long as her innocence is not proven by means of the bitter water. And if her husband dies childless before she drinks the bitter water, she performs ḥalitza with her late husband’s brother and may not enter into levirate marriage, as, if she had been unfaithful, levirate marriage is forbidden.
▶💬GuemaraThe Gemara questions the placement of this tractate within the mishnaic order of Nashim. Now, the tanna arose from tract…
The Gemara questions the placement of this tractate within the mishnaic order of Nashim. Now, the tanna arose from tractate Nazir, which is the tractate preceding Sota in the order of the Mishna. What did he teach in Nazirthat required that he teach tractate Sota immediately afterward, as at first glance there seems to be no connection between this tractate and Nazir?
The Gemara answers: This was done in accordance with the statement of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi with regard to the sequence of passages in the Torah, as it is taught in a baraita that Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi says: Why is the portion of a nazirite (Numbers, chapter 6) placed adjacent to the portion of a sota (Numbers, chapter 5)? This was done to tell you that anyone who sees a sota in her disgrace as she undergoes the rite of the bitter water should renounce wine, as wine is one of the causes of sexual transgression, as it loosens inhibitions. For the same reason that the Torah teaches these passages one after the other, Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi arranged these tractates one after the other.
The Gemara asks: But if so, let him teach tractate Sota first and then let him teach tractate Nazir, which is the way these topics are ordered in the Torah, and also accords better with the statement of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi. The Gemara answers: Since the tannataught tractate Ketubot, and in that tractate he taught a chapter that begins: One who vows, in which there are several mishnayot concerning vows between husbands and wives, he then taught tractate Nedarim, whose subject is the halakhot of vows. And since he taught tractate Nedarim, he then taught tractate Nazir, which is similar to tractate Nedarim in that one becomes a nazirite by taking a vow. And he then teaches tractate Sota, in accordance with the statement of Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi.
§ The Gemara begins clarifying the mishna. The mishna states: One who issues a warning to his wife. By employing the descriptive phrase: One who issues a warning, and not the prescriptive phrase: One issues a warning, the tanna indicates that after the fact, yes, it is effective if he issues a warning in this manner, but ideally, no, one should not issue a warning to his wife at all ab initio. Apparently, the tanna of our mishna holds that it is prohibited to issue a warning to one’s wife ab initio in a manner that can cause her to become a sota, and all the halakhot concerning a sota are for one who issued a warning when not obligated to do so.
Rav Shmuel bar Rav Yitzḥak says: When Reish Lakish would introduce his discussion of the Torah passage of sota he would say this: Heaven matches a woman to a man only according to his actions, as it is stated: “For the rod of wickedness shall not rest upon the lot of the righteous” (Psalms 125:3), indicating that if one has a wicked wife it is due to his own evil conduct. Rabba bar bar Ḥana says that Rabbi Yoḥanan says: And it is as difficult to match a couple together as was the splitting of the Red Sea, as it is stated in a verse that speaks of the exodus from Egypt: “God makes the solitary individuals dwell in a house; He brings out prisoners into prosperity [bakosharot]” (Psalms 68:7). God takes single individuals and causes them to dwell in a house by properly matching a man to a woman. This is similar to the exodus from Egypt, which culminated in the splitting of the Red Sea, where He released prisoners into prosperity.
The Gemara asks: Is that so that a man is matched to a woman according to his actions? But Rav Yehuda says that Rav says: Forty days before an embryo is formed a Divine Voice issues forth and says: The daughter of so-and-so is destined to marry so-and-so; such and such a house is destined to be inhabited by so-and-so; such and such a field is destined to be farmed by so-and-so. This clearly states that these matters, including marriage, are decreed for a person even before he is formed. The Gemara answers: This is not difficult. This statement that Rav Yehuda says in the name of Rav is with regard to a first match [zivug], while this statement of Rabba bar bar Ḥana in the name of Rabbi Yoḥanan is with regard to a second match. A first match is decreed in heaven; a second match is according to one’s actions.
§ The Gemara now clarifies the dispute in the mishna. Rabbi Eliezer says: The husband must issue a warning to her based on, i.e., in the presence of, two witnesses, and he gives the bitter water to her to drink based on the testimony of one witness. Rabbi Yehoshua says: He both issues a warning to her based on two witnesses and gives the bitter water to her to drink based on the testimony of two witnesses who saw them secluded together. The Gemara notes: Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Yehoshua disagree only with regard to the requisite number of witnesses for the warning and the seclusion, whether one or two witnesses are required, but with regard to the testimony concerning defilement after the warning was issued and seclusion had occurred, they agree that even the testimony of one witness is deemed credible to establish that the woman actually engaged in sexual intercourse with the man while secluded.
The Gemara comments: And we learned also in another mishna (31a) that if a single witness says: I saw that she was defiled, then she would not drink the bitter water, as the testimony is accepted, and her husband must divorce her and she forfeits payment of her marriage contract. Therefore, there is no need to perform the sota rite.
The Gemara asks: By Torah law, from where do we derive that one witness is deemed credible with regard to testifying that a sota engaged in sexual intercourse? The Gemara answers: As the Sages taught in reference to the verse describing the circumstances in which a woman defiled through an act of adultery becomes forbidden to her husband, which states: “And a man lie with her carnally and it be hid from the eyes of her husband, she being defiled secretly, and there is no witness [ed] against her” (Numbers 5:13), the verse is speaking of a lack of two witnesses. When the verse refers to the lack of an ed, written in the singular, it actually indicates that there are not two witnesses against her, but only one, as the baraita will now explain.
The baraita continues and asks: Or perhaps the verse is referring only to a case where there was not even one witness to the act of sexual intercourse, as the singular usage of the word ed would seem to indicate? The baraita now proves that elsewhere the word ed is used to indicate two witnesses, as the verse states: “One witness [ed] shall not rise up against a man for any iniquity or any sin that he sins; by the mouth of two witnesses or by the mouth of three witnesses shall a matter be established” (Deuteronomy 19:15).
▶🇫🇷Résumé en françaisLa Guemara interroge le placement de ce traité dans l’ordre mishnaïque de Nashim. Or, le tanna s’est levé de traité Nazi…
La Guemara interroge le placement de ce traité dans l’ordre mishnaïque de Nashim. Or, le tanna s’est levé de traité Nazir, qui est le traité précédant Sota dans l’ordre de la Mishna. Qu’a-t-ilenseigné dans Nazirqui exigeait qu’il enseigne traité Sota immédiatement après, car à première vue il semble n’y avoir aucun lien entre ce traité et Nazir ?
La Guemara répond : Cela a été fait conformément à la déclaration de Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi concernant la séquence des passages dans la Torah, comme il est enseigné dans une baraita que Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi dit : Pourquoi la section du naziréen (Nombres, chapitre 6) est-elle placée adjacente à la section de la sota (Nombres, chapitre 5) ? Cela a été fait pour te dire que quiconque voit une sota dans sa disgrâce alors qu’elle subit le rite de l’eau amère doit renoncer au vin, car le vin est l’une des causes de la transgression sexuelle, car il relâche les inhibitions. Pour la même raison que la Torah enseigne ces passages l’un après l’autre, Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi a arrangé ces traités l’un après l’autre.
La Guemara demande : Mais si c’est le cas, qu’ilenseigne traité Sota d’abord et ensuite qu’ilenseigne traité Nazir, ce qui est la manière dont ces sujets sont ordonnés dans la Torah, et cela s’accorde aussi mieux avec la déclaration de Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi. La Guemara répond : Puisque le tannaa enseigné traité Ketubot, et dans ce traité il a enseigné un chapitre qui commence par : Celui qui fait un vœu, dans lequel il y a plusieurs mishnayot concernant les vœux entre maris et femmes, il a ensuite enseigné traité Nedarim, dont le sujet est les halakhot des vœux. Et puisque il a enseigné traité Nedarim, il a ensuite enseigné traité Nazir, qui est similaire à traité Nedarim en ce que l’on devient naziréen en faisant un vœu. Et il enseigne ensuite traité Sota, conformément à la déclaration de Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi.
§ La Guemara commence à clarifier la mishna. La mishna dit : Celui qui émet un avertissement à sa femme. En employant la phrase descriptive : Celui qui émet un avertissement, et non la phrase prescriptive : On émet un avertissement, le tanna indique que après coup, oui, c’est efficace s’il émet un avertissement de cette manière, mais idéalement, non, on ne doit pas émettre d’avertissement à sa femme du tout ab initio. Apparemment, le tanna de notre mishna tient qu’il est interdit d’émettre un avertissement à sa femme ab initio d’une manière qui peut la faire devenir une sota, et toutes les halakhot concernant une sota sont pour celui qui a émis un avertissement alors qu’il n’y était pas obligé.
Rav Shmuel bar Rav Yitzḥak dit : Lorsque Reish Lakish introduisait sa discussion du passage de la Torah de sota il disait ceci : Le Ciel n’apparie une femme à un homme que selon ses actions, comme il est dit : « Car la verge de la méchanceté ne reposera pas sur le lot des justes » (Psaumes 125:3), indiquant que si l’on a une femme méchante, c’est dû à sa propre mauvaise conduite. Rabba bar bar Ḥana dit que Rabbi Yoḥanan dit : Et il est aussi difficile d’apparier un couple ensemble que ne l’a été la division de la mer Rouge, comme il est dit dans un verset qui parle de la sortie d’Égypte : « Dieu fait habiter en famille ceux qui étaient solitaires ; Il fait sortir les prisonniers dans la prospérité [bakosharot] » (Psaumes 68:7). Dieu prend des individus solitaires et les fait habiter dans une maison en appariant correctement un homme à une femme. Cela est similaire à la sortie d’Égypte, qui a culminé dans la division de la mer Rouge, où Il a libéré les prisonniers dans la prospérité.
La Guemara demande : Est-ce vraiment le cas qu’un homme est apparié à une femme selon ses actions ? Mais Rav Yehuda dit que Rav dit : Quarante jours avant la formation d’un embryon, une voix divine se fait entendre et dit : La fille d’untel est destinée à épouser untel ; telle maison est destinée à être habitée par untel ; tel champ est destiné à être cultivé par untel. Cela déclare clairement que ces choses, y compris le mariage, sont décrétées pour une personne avant même sa formation. La Guemara répond : Ceci n’est pas difficile. Cette déclaration que Rav Yehuda dit au nom de Rav est concernant un premier appariement [zivug], tandis que cette déclaration de Rabba bar bar Ḥana au nom de Rabbi Yoḥanan est concernant un second appariement. Un premier appariement est décrété au ciel ; un second appariement est selon ses actions.
§ La Guemara clarifie maintenant le différend dans la mishna. Rabbi Eliezer dit : Le mari doit émettre un avertissement à elle sur la base de, c’est-à-dire en présence de, deux témoins, et il lui donne l’eau amère à boire sur la base du témoignage d’un seul témoin. Rabbi Yehoshua dit : Il émet un avertissement à elle sur la base de deux témoins et lui donne l’eau amère à boire sur la base du témoignage de deux témoins qui les ont vus isolés ensemble. La Guemara note : Rabbi Eliezer et Rabbi Yehoshua ne sont en désaccord que concernant le nombre requis de témoins pour l’avertissement et l’isolement, qu’un ou deux témoins soient requis, mais concernant le témoignage de la souillure après que l’avertissement a été émis et que l’isolement a eu lieu, ils conviennent que même le témoignage d’un seul témoin est jugé crédible pour établir que la femme a effectivement eu des rapports sexuels avec l’homme pendant l’isolement.
La Guemara commente : Et nous avons aussi appris dans une autre mishna (31a) que si un seul témoin dit : J’ai vu
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▶✝️Réponse ScripturaLe témoignage d’un avertissement efficace exige deux témoins, et l’absence de ces témoins rend l’avertissement invalide,…
Le témoignage d’un avertissement efficace exige deux témoins, et l’absence de ces témoins rend l’avertissement invalide, ce qui montre que la justice divine repose sur la vérité établie par des témoins, tout comme le Christ a enseigné la vérité par la parole de deux ou trois témoins.
Sans Jésus, vous êtes perdu. Mais Christ est mort pour vos péchés et il est ressuscité : recevez-le avant qu'il ne soit trop tard. « Si tu confesses de ta bouche le Seigneur Jésus, et si tu crois dans ton cœur que Dieu l'a ressuscité des morts, tu seras sauvé. » — Romains 10:9